The Fine Art of Fellatio — Oral Sex for Him

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The Fine Art of Fellatio — Oral Sex for Him

Look at him once in a while. That can really turn him on. Men like to watch and it’s exciting to let him know you like him watching too. Swirl your tongue around the head of his penis, the most sensitive part. Kiss it. Go back to moving in and out. Keep varying what you’re doing, but don’t jump from one thing to another too quickly either–just long enough to where you leave him wanting more.

With your other hand, occasionally drag your fingertips lightly across his belly, his thighs, and his testicles. Sometimes hold his testicles firmly, as you might to test the ripeness of a peach. You don’t want to hurt him, but if the pressure is firm, not hard, and even, it can feel very good to him. Touch his scrotum, just behind his testicles, brush softly, then press with very slight pressure, being careful not to hurt him. There’s a spot about half an inch from his anus towards his scrotum that’s especially sensitive.

Touch that with mild pressure and soft strokes. Put your hand around his shaft, while your mouth is around the head, and stroke him. Move your mouth up and down with your hand doing the same. Do this very slowly at times, savoring his pleasure, and then pick up the speed. Using a firm grip, get his shaft wet with your mouth, and allow your hand to slide up and down. Try slightly less pressure as you move toward him and more as you move away. As your move upward to the tip of his penis, swirl your tongue around the head, then move down the shaft again. Each time you move toward the head, swirl your tongue. Get a good rhythm going. Really get into making love to his lingham.

Whenever you sense he’s getting close to orgasm, focus your attention on his penis. For orgasm, generally a man likes a more continuous rhythm, up and down on his penis, without any change in what you’re doing. Swirl your tongue as you move up and down. Stroke his testicles. This will drive him wild and he may have the most intense orgasm of his life. When he begins his orgasm, be especially aware of what he wants. He might hold your head and move you or slow you down. He might want to use his own hand. Allow whatever at this moment–it’s his moment and he’s lost in the pleasure that you’ve created for him.

Savor it.

To prolong his pleasure, after he’s come, very gently–too much can be uncomfortable because it overstimulates–continue to pleasure him, swirling and moving ever so slowly. He may not want to have an orgasm and want to be inside of you. Or you may want him inside of you. Ask him and see what his reaction is. If he wants you to stay there, you’ll probably want to do what he’s wanting at this time, since this is about pleasuring him right now.

Allow him to lead. After he’s come, you can slide him inside of you while he’s still hard, which won’t usually last very long. The main thing is to be intuitive about what he’s liking and wanting. Ask him to guide you, to tell you exactly what he likes. If you let him know you really want to please him, he’ll be happy to oblige with specific instructions. Keep the communication sexy, not clinical. Sometimes just saying “Tell me what you want,” is enough to get his input. Each man is individual.

These are just some ideas to try. Some men may like it just one way and don’t want you to mix it up. That’s why communication is so important. If you want to do this for him, you certainly want to do what he likes. Try new things but be willing to hear that it doesn’t work for him. Let him know you want to pleasure him. It’s the highest compliment you can give him.

Most important, be spontaneous, creative, playful, sexy and enjoy being able to give pleasure that he’ll not soon forget. Allow yourself to really get lost in the experience. Most men will be thrilled with whatever you’re doing.

The only complaints I hear in my interviews is •Not being careful enough with the teeth, •Treating his lingham as if it’s not part of him, •Not doing it long enough or often enough, and •Not being enthusiastic about being there.

If you’re goal is pleasuring him, you’ll be great. Hopefully this will show you that being creative, having a loving attitude, and being willing to make it an enjoyable activity for both of you, will create a fantastic experience. If you’re enthusiastic, passionate, and sexy, he’ll go wild and your confidence as a lover will skyrocket.

Note: If he’s not willing to pleasure you with his mouth, you shouldn’t be expected to pleasure him, unless you just like doing it. From my heart to yours, Kara Oh

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