The Art of Cunnilingus — Oral Sex for Her

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The Art of Cunnilingus — Oral Sex for Her

This will make her a little bit crazy, but it will help build up her arousal and her need for you.

Moving back to her yoni, use your tongue to investigate and pleasure her in every possible place. Her wiggles and moans will tell you you’re doing it just right. Take mental notes for the next time. Each woman is a little different and you want to know exactly what gives this lovely creature the most pleasure.

When most women are getting close to orgasm, they need a fairly constant stimulation of their clitoris, sometimes for several minutes. Here’s something that will really work well. When she’s totally lost in what you’ve been doing, take her clitoris in your mouth, sucking ever-so-gently and as you’re sucking, flick your tongue back and forth. If you keep that going, she’ll explode in a rapture she’s never experienced before.

Here’s something that works really well for some women. See if it works for yours. While she’s getting closer to coming, but not there yet, stop stimulating her clitoris and kiss her belly, labia, thighs… then when you go back to her clitoris, it will be even more intense and make her come bigger and quicker. Some women may scream, “DON’T STOP!!!” She’ll let you know if this technique works for her or not. Either way, don’t go away for very long or she’ll lose her arousal and she will be one unhappy camper.

For many women, pleasuring her orally is the only way they can experience an orgasm. Or it’s the easiest way for them to get there. If that’s the case, do this often or resentment will build up that you don’t care about her needs and only care about your own. If you give her this gift on a regular basis, she won’t mind not having an orgasm every time you make love. Neglect her needs and she’ll mind a lot. Eventually she’ll lose interest entirely. I doubt that you want that. A well satisfied woman is an enthusiastic lover. THAT, I’m pretty certain, you do want.

From my heart to yours,
Kara Oh

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