5 Myths About Kinky Sex From '50 Shades Of Grey'


5 Myths About Kinky Sex From '50 Shades Of Grey' [EXPERT]
Not everything in the sexy trilogy is exactly accurate ...

4. People who enjoy sexual control will want to control every aspect of your life.

Busted: Lots of people who enjoy being in control in the bedroom have no interest in controlling the minutia of every day existence. Giving sensual commands to your lover during sex is incredibly different than expecting your partner to get your permission every time they need to eat or use the restroom. That is not the way most people explore erotic control.

5. It is sexy when women sexually submit. It is pathetic for men to sexually submit.

Busted: Dominance and submission goes both ways equally well and the only thing that matters is what you and your partner want. Some women love being in charge in the bedroom and feel powerful and sexy with their lover trembling. It can be an incredible aphrodisiac to play with the taboo of a strong, sexually dominant woman. More men would like to submit to that commanding woman than traditional media would have you believe. Why Women Love '50 Shades Of Grey'

So, there you go, some of the biggest myths written about in the 50 Shades trilogy have been debunked. The books can be fantastic fodder for fantasies. They can also inspire conversations about sex that may have never happened before and remind women all over the world that their sexual desires haven't disappeared.

If you're interested in learning more about how to explore kinky sex, please check out the most extensive kink education site on the net, KinkAcademy and its sister site PassionateU.

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