You don’t have to have the perfect porn star sex moves down pat, you don’t have to look like a supermodel and you don't have to be able to pretzel yourself into tantra positions to have confidence in the bedroom. Let your physical criticisms go (those dimmer lights can help with that) focus on the skills you do have and most of all relax and have fun. That’s the most confident, and sexy thing you can do.
Emperor Penquins sing to attract their mates. If you’ve seen “Happy Feet”, then you already know that male Emperor penguins sing (called "bugling") to attract a female. But it’s more than that. Penguins actually have their own breeding site, often walking 30 to 70 miles to reach it. Although penguins are monogamous, if they can't find their mate in the crowd the following year, they'd often move on and mate with another. Hey, if you gotta breed, you gotta breed. So much for faithfulness.