What To Do When Your Man Is Pulling Away

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What To Do When Your Man Is Pulling Away
Overreacting could push him even further away.

When you see your man pulling away, a lot of panic and questions starts haunting your mind. "What did I do? What did I say?" and second guessing everything about yourself.

Don't hustle him with a flood of text messages, calls or the dreaded pop-in, as his distance might have nothing to do with you at all. Give him some space. If he continues to be distant, you'll want to communicate your concern and ask him if everything is ok.

Giving him the freedom and the space to share with you what's really wrong with him, even if what he shares with you is not what you want to hear.

Three things need to be in place in order for a man to really show up for you as a partner.

  1. He needs to have "the hots" for you romantically.
  2. He needs to feel that you and the complexities of your life fit in well with his — that your worlds mesh well together.
  3. Timing needs to be right for him, for developing and sustaining a long-term partnership.

To read what some of the best dating and matchmaking experts has to say about this situation. Check out the informative article What To Do When He Pulls Away From You.

Julie Ferman has been a personal matchmaker and dating coach since 1990, with over 1100 marriages to her credit. Single men and women are welcome to register privately, for free, to be eligible for personal matchmaking referrals throughout the U.S., Canada and the world. Julie provides a full menu of personal matchmaking and dating coaching services, by invitation. Her mission is to dignify and simplify the love search process for selective, relationship-minded professionals. Visit her website at http://www.JulieFerman.com

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Julie Ferman

Dating Coach

Julie Ferman, Founder

www.JulieFerman.com

Awarded Best Matchmaker: 2013, 2012, 2011, 2010 by iDate and Online Personals Watch

Location: Westlake Village, CA
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Specialties: Dating/Being Single Support, Life Management, Matchmaking
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