The key is to KNOW what works for you, what turns you back into a woman, even in the midst of a hectic day with the kids or on the job. What works for me, that instantly turns me back into a woman, MUCH more appealing to my hubby? Yoga, bubblebaths, a quick walk outside, taking a moment to pet and love on my dog, shaving my legs, savoring my mid-morning orange out on the patio (instead of eating it in front of my computer, while on a phone call...), and the instant quickie -- taking three long, slow, deep breaths -- focusing only on my breath. I do this often throughout the day to instantly remind myself of who I am, at the core, which is all woman...
My client, Sandra is a single working mom who felt horribly isolated, running a business from home. She disciplined herself to take her lunch outside every day to a nearby park, which also happens to be near an office complex -- She purposely doesn't take her phone with her, she actually takes this 60-minute break five days a week now. She says the warmth of the sun,the touch of the breeze, the sweet sounds of the birds, the ahhhhh moments she's creating for herself are making her a MUCH more feminine woman, and she says men are buzzing around all the time lately, she's made some great new connections and she's meeting one for a date next week -- they met at the park. Sweet...! As a matchmaker and a dating coach http://cupidscoach.com/NewRegister.aspx, it's so heartwarming to see clients developing strategies that just plain WORK.
The side benefit of Sandra's reclaim-my-sensual-feminine-self project? Her kids get to be with a much more relaxed mom who's got much more of a spring in her step since changing her lunchtime routine.
Share your examples with me -- as a busy single mom, what works to turn YOU back into a girl? The type of feminine woman who men simply can't resist?