Are You Afraid and Frustrated?
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If you are having difficulty turning problems into opportunities, you may be discouraged. You may have a need to build your self esteem in order to overcome fear, doubts and frustrations that are impacting the life you deserve to live. Having courage does not mean that you are free of fear, despair, doubt, frustration or discouragement.It does mean that we are able to meet life's challenges and move forward.
Courage is Movement Forward
Any time we take action and move toward a goal, we set a process in place that will overcome negative thoughts and experiences. The Universe rewards those who know what they want and take immediate action. Sometimes, the most courageous thing we can do is to say; "This is a negative place in my life and I want to change my direction and not remain stuck here." Making a decision to overcome fear or to just walk through the doubt is frequently the catapult to success in many areas of life
Encourage Yourself To Take First Step
By making a decision to overcome what may seem overwhelming, you will be moving forward as opposed to stagnation and paralysis. Many people are stuck in miserable situations because they are waiting for someone or something outside of themselves to decide what to do or to save them from their misery. The courage to turn a problem into a challenge is best met internally. Others may be vested in keeping you stuck. If you change and move forward, it may disrupt their safety net. It is not their problem, it is yours.
You may be looking at problems in a restricted and narrow framework. You may be basing your fear and doubt on old beliefs that no longer serve you. You may be replaying old family tapes in your head that keep you from stepping out into the future with courage and daring.Get unstuck in life by making a decision to move forward
Peel Away Old Belief Systems
By getting to the root cause of our fears and doubts we can examine them in the light and reframe them for the future. This will enable us to function in a more satisfying and rewarding manner. We become what we are through our decisions, all of which require courage.
Lack of courage is often express in the decision not to make a decision.
- How do you encourage yourself when you are afraid?
- Do you recognize that you and you alone own the problem?
- Do you have old family beliefs that are holding you back?
- Are you sometimes suffer from paralysis of perfection?
- What decision will you make today that will move you forward from a stuck place?
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