How To Date Without 'Suffocating' A New Partner


Relationships: How To Date Without 'Suffocating' A New Partner
It's called 'Relationship Lite' and it involves mastering the "take-it-or-leave it" attitude.

The best part is, Relationship Lite triggers something in a man's psychology that makes him crave the hunt, or the chase. He's not sure he "has" you, because you're approaching the relationship with a cautious "take-it-or-leave it" attitude. Even if you're having sex, there are no guarantees you'll say yes to the next date. You may or you may not, it depends on what else you have going on in your life.

And the best part of this is — men date this way naturally, so your guy will LOVE that you're on the same page.

When women hear about this, they say it sounds like a dream and too good to be true. They're skeptical, and rightly so. Happiness and fun without the pressure? How can that be? It's easier than you think, and the next blog will open up the world of Relationship Lite and show you how you can have a great relationship with a man and enjoy the dating, mating, and relating process.

Stay tuned…

This article was originally published at Understand Men Now with Jonathon Aslay. Reprinted with permission.

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