The Key To Healthy, Communicative Relationships

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The Key To Healthy, Communicative Relationships
You hold the key to resolving the difficulties in your marriage.

In your recovery work you will find that compatible defects of character promote communication problems and make true intimate connection difficult, if not impossible. Defects of character are a remnants of the old and not so sober you, and will need to be replaced with coping strategies that contribute to the health and healing in the romance. Fault finding on the other hand is harmful to ourselves or our partner.

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This article was originally published at PsychCentral. Reprinted with permission.
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Dr. John Grohol is a mental health expert and founder of Psych Central. He has been writing about online behavior, mental health and psychology issues, and the intersection of technology and psychology since 1992.

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