In your recovery work you will find that compatible defects of character promote communication problems and make true intimate connection difficult, if not impossible. Defects of character are a remnants of the old and not so sober you, and will need to be replaced with coping strategies that contribute to the health and healing in the romance. Fault finding on the other hand is harmful to ourselves or our partner.
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