Extra, Extra, Read All About It….New Sex Survey Promises to Reveal Interesting Insights into our Sexual Personality

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We are a curious bunch, just mention the word sex and you will get someone’s attention. Some of us always seem to be interested in learning something new about our sexuality that has never been discussed or discovered before.  I wonder why that is?  Are we seeking some definitive answer that will finally inform us about our sexuality once and for all?  I doubt it, but I think as long as we continue to shroud any sexual discussions in secrecy and label them as forbidden we will always want to know more. 

 

Sex is one of those topics that typically has the effect of polarizing people.  Earning a living as a sex therapist, I probably know this better than anyone.  When I have been in social settings the reaction on people’s faces who support or disapprove of what I do is always apparent.  The supporters want to know “everything” and sometimes have decided to inquire about their fantasy about what I do and the people I see.  While I hate to put a damper on their creative enthusiasm, the reality is a far cry from the imagined place they have envisioned.  Those that disapprove usually walk away shaking their hands at me as though it were some sacred cleansing ritual to keep me from destroying their soul or some such thing. 

 

What I have noted that no matter how much has been said or written about sex, it is a subject that truly can captivate an audience to know even more.  Many people want to learn as much as possible and are very happy and willing to share their views, stories and interpretations. 

 

As someone “new” to my role as a sex therapist, [NOTE: certified in 2008 by AASECT – the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors & Therapists], I was somewhat apprehensive in approaching my peers and colleagues regarding the communication’s tool I developed, the Beiter Sexuality Personality Indicator.  Since I am not a researcher by anyone’s definition, it felt intimidating to ‘push my way in’ to the field when looking at all the great educators the field has to offer. 

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