Unleash Your Inner Freak

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One of the biggest complaints I get from
women (and men) in long term relationships is that the sex has become either stale
or non-existent.  There are lots of
reasons for this:  busy lives, children,
work related travel, and the fact that the more intimately you know someone,
the harder you have to work to maintain an erotic edge.

I thought I’d give some tips to spicing up
your sex life in a few easy steps.  First
let me assure the women reading this that there is virtually nothing you’d be
willing to do that would seem too freaky to your man.  Something that would stretch you to the
limits of your freakiness will be a pleasant and erotic surprise for your
partner.  Men have a much higher
tolerance for wild sex than most women, so don’t be intimidated to try
something new.  

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Here are some tips:

1.      Schedule some play time.  I know it doesn’t feel sexy to schedule
sexual play, but if it’s a priority for you, you need to make sure you can fit
it into your busy life.  Many years ago
my partner and I designated Sunday as “oral day”.  Somehow, mysteriously, our friends found out
about it.  Instead of being embarrassing,
it gave us an easy “out” if we were invited somewhere on a Sunday and we didn’t
want to attend.