As we draw into ourselves, we can turn
inward and focus our energy, much like the star does when it’s creating the
black hole. Black holes tend to have a
negative connotation to some, but they are powerful sources of universal
energy. I invite you to use this time to draw into yourself and explore the
pure essence of your nature. What are
your unique gifts? How do you want to
express them? What would that mean for
your business? How do you want to be in
relationship with your beloved? If
you’re not in a relationship, what is the energy you want to share with a new
we get clear on how we want to expend our energy, we can let it explode out
into the universe. From a business
standpoint, many people don’t want to focus themselves so clearly that they
exclude certain demographics. However,
marketing and PR experts all agree:
niche marketing is the way to go.
People do business with people they know and like. We are drawn to people who are most like us. What hobbies do you have? How do you like to spend your free time? Wouldn’t it be great if all your clients were
interested in those things too? This is
also true for our romantic relationships.
They say opposites attract, but deep down it is our similarities that
draw us together. Opposites only attract
when it comes to sexual polarity.
Romantically, I’ve learned of a powerful
tool that will help you focus and get clear about what’s important to you. It’s called the Three Absolute Yes’s. It’s adapted from the Hendricks Institute, where
a friend and colleague attended coaching school.
1. Identify three qualities or traits that
absolutely must be present in your partner.
2. Write them down and hang them somewhere
prominent where you’ll see them every day.