When you notice mistrust creeping in, remember that you’ve chosen to trust. You’ll start noticing signs that support trust; it’s a matter of focusing your attention on what you want rather than what you don’t want.
These three steps will lead you deeper into love through the vehicle of better sex. If you want to go further, there are many excellent books on Tantra and sacred sexuality available. You can learn breathing techniques, how to consciously move your energy, and communication skills to deepen your relationship and expand your sexual experiences. There’s no end to how deeply you can dive into the sea of sexuality. You may find that you need help along the way. A trained professional, like a therapist or a relationship coach like me, can take years off the process.