Getting Ready for Grown-Up Sex


Getting Ready for Grown-Up Sex

3.      Complacency.  Conscious sex is not for everyone.  It’s not for people who would rather settle for
comfortable and predictable than take a chance at extraordinary love, deep
connection and wild orgasms.  It does
require us to step outside our comfort zones and express ourselves in new and
more authentic ways.  But as a dear
friend once said, “If you’re not living on the edge, you’re just taking up
space!”  Start with small steps, and inch
yourself toward the edge.  The air gets
clearer with each step, no matter how small or large. 

4.      Innocence/ignorance.  If you’re reading this, it’s no longer a
viable excuse for you.  There are many
people who just don’t realize that there are greater possibilities for their
romantic relationships than settling for comfortable, occasional sex once they’ve
been together for more than a few years. 
Now that you know there’s another possibility, what are you willing to
do about it?

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