a woman does leave her relationship, she’d do herself and her potential
partners a world of good to take some time for herself before jumping into the
next relationship. It’s not fair to try to find yourself through the eyes of
another, no matter how scary it might be to be on your own. Being afraid to be on your own is called
emotional fusion, and it afflicts most people, men and women alike.
a man fortunate enough to date a woman who’s been through this process, count
your lucky stars and do what you can to be man enough for her. It won’t necessarily be the easiest
relationship, but it will be the most fulfilling. She won’t let you get away with being a jerk,
and she’ll expect you to demand her very best.