5 Ways to Spice Up a Relationship

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5 Ways to Spice Up a Relationship

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It happens to nearly everyone:  at some point in a long term relationship,
you realize the spark has gone out of your sex life.  The love is still there, but if feels more
like a comfortable friendship with an occasional roll in the hay.  Sex becomes predictable, and therefore
stale. 

If you’re a normal, red-blooded woman, this
will not do.  It’s sometimes enough to
trick you into thinking it’s your fault; that your libido isn’t what it used to
be.  In most cases, that’s just not
true.  Women peak sexually in their
forties; we’re finally willing to love ourselves as we are and to heck with
what anyone else thinks of us.  This
attitude is a strong foundation for the best sex you’ve ever had.

These five ways to spice up your sex life
need just one thing:  you have to be
willing to take some initiative.  I can
guarantee that 97 out of 100 men will be falling at your feet, frothing at the
mouth with eagerness to please you if you try any of these suggestions.  Lock your inhibitions in the closet where
they belong, and enjoy experimenting!   

1.      Toys: 
A sure-fire way to get your man revved up is to let him watch you
pleasure yourself with a vibrator.  If
you’re on the shy side, you can start just before he’s due home and let him “accidentally”
walk in on you.

2.      Games: 
Kama Sutra has a beautiful line of edibles and games, or
you could play something straight up like strip poker.  It doesn’t matter if you don’t know how to
play poker, as long as you know how to strip.

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