A smart guy will allow himself to be naturally guided into doing what a woman wants. Yes, we do need to be trained. Cool thing is that it’s a win/win result. Most of the women I have worked with have learned for themselves how to provide their man with the opportunities for success, appreciate his efforts and thus find themselves falling in love on a regular basis; with the same man! You may even find your man offering more than you asked for. The men I’ve worked with begin looking for creative ways to make their woman smile and when they discover how, things work out amazingly well.
At times, men can be lazy; we all know that. Yet, we are hard workers when the goal is clear. Focus drives us like few things can. So does pleasing our woman. It’s the teamwork and communication that make the difference. While you may want us to be creative and spontaneous, how you’ll get it will be by letting us know precisely what you want and being pleased when we go get it for you.
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