5. If the Buddha Dated by Charlotte Kasl. Much like the Power of Now, this book will help ease the anxiety you feel when it comes to your pursuit for a partner. The author combines Buddhist, Quaker and Sufi spiritual philosophy to love, which can help quiet your mind from those pesky paranoid thoughts that often cripple our romantic endeavors before they even get started.
6. Was it Something I Said? by Jess McCann. Because women email me daily asking, What Should I Do Now?, I compiled all the most frequently asked relationship questions into an easy to read Q&A guide. This book will help you handle love's little challenges the right way by giving advice on how to best approach sticky romantic situations. Hook up with him too soon? Text him too much? Want to bring up the relationship talk? You'll find all the appropriate words to say to him right inside.
7. Happiness for No Reason by Marci Shimoff. Most women spend half their lives learning to be more confident, but the secret to attracting a man is not boosting your self-esteem, it's being happy! Happy women are the most alluring women. This book will teach you ways to create happiness from the inside out, which will not only attract the love you want, but it will also help you maintain it as well. Pick it up and start getting happy.
8. Love in 90 Days by Diana kirschner. Although it may not happen in exactly three months, the message of this book is one that will help you drop your "deadly dating patterns" so that love can eventually find it's way to you. Married for over 25 years herself, the author dispels misconceptions most women have about love and relationships, allowing a healthy connection to grow with the man you should be with (although you may not know it yet!)
9. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. Ego is one of love's major obstacles, and this is why I reccomend Tolle's second book. Although it is not an easy read, it is one that can be life changing. The author indentifies the many faces of ego residing in us all, and helps us to awaken to our true authentic self — something I believe is necessary when determing who is right for us. This book is also wondeful for anyone who is currently in a relationship.
10. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman. Even if you are not married, this book is a worthy read. You'll be surprised at what the author claims makes most marriages work, and why not learn now before you're knee deep in diapers and mortgage payments? Turns out the key to a solid relationship is not just lots of communication, but rather abiding by certain principles and exercising them regularly according to Gottman.