The Secret To Sending An Irresistible Email

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The Secret To Sending An Irresistible Email
Make sure you're the first person he wants to respond to.

Jasbina asks Dr. Diana Kirschner, "In your book Find Your Soulmate Online in Six Simple Steps, you say you can write an email that makes an intriguing man beg to meet you. Tell us about that email. What is the "secret formula" to write an irresistible email?"

"You pick an activity in his profile that you also like doing and you put that in the subject line," said Kirschner. "Hopefully, there is an activity that you also love doing. You could Google the activity that he mentions but it's better to pick something that you're interested in too. Then, you share an experience you had or ask him a question about it." 

 

"For example, let's say he's into baseball. You can write something like, 'I absolutely love the game. What about Cabrera winning the Triple Crown? Do you think he's MVP material?' This is you speaking his language. He is probably passionate about the Triple Crown. He will want to talk to you."

"In Find Your Soulmate Online in Six Simple Steps, I talk about how to do your photo. There is a way to do your photo. I don't care if you take bad photos. I don't care if you're 50 pounds overweight. You can take an amazing photo by following a few simple rules. If you have a knock-your-socks-off photo and you're speaking his language, he cannot wait. You're the first one he wants to respond to. He wants to talk about the Triple Crown. He wants to talk about Cabrera and the other players. It's magnetic."

The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with Dr. Diana Kirschner. The entire interview transcript is at: Diana Kirschner Interview – Online Dating Strategies. Listen to the entire interview on: Intersections Match Talk Radio – Jasbina’s Lifestyle Show. Listen to the entire interview on Blog Talk Radio: Find Your Soulmate Online – In Six Simple Steps: Diana Kirschner

Jasbina Ahluwalia is an Indian American attorney-turned-entrepreneur, Relationship Expert, Radio Show Host and Matchmaker/Dating Coach. She is the founder and president of Intersections Match by Jasbina, the only Premier Full-Service Selective Search, Dating / Relationship Coaching and Online Dating Support Firm – For Indian Singles. Jasbina is also the host of Intersections Talk Radio, a monthly holistic lifestyle show  that involves conversations with published authors/experts on relationships and health and wellness. She has received worldwide press (Oprah, Chicago Tribune, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine) including TV and Video & Radio. For more information, please visit www.IntersectionsMatch.com. Feel free to submit a Question to be considered for this column to Jasbina directly at info@interectionsmatch.com.

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