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Loves Me, Loves Me Not?


Many individuals are stuck in relationships that take one step forward, then three gian steps back. On again, off again. It's like flipping a light switch- one moment they love you, the next second they don't. I call it the "Rubber-Band" relationship. It stretches your emotions almost to a breaking point, then snaps back.  We've all been there at one time or another. If you're experiencing the thrill of the "Rubber-Band" emotional roller coaster, walking on eggshells, fearful that ANY comment you make will trigger a negative response well, obviously you're not involved in a satisfying or healthy relationship. My blog today, The Angel's Loft , is a commentary of the complications of a boomerang boyfriend (or girlfriend) and how you might be able to liberate yourself from this type of relationship. Here's to a great Wednesday to you all in TangoLand! - Jane.


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