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The 3 HOTTEST Things You Can Say To A Guy (That Have Nothing To Do With Sex)

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He will be wrapped around your finger.

If you've ever said something to a guy that you regret, chances are you said too much.

The most attractive words to men are simple but incredibly effective.

It's amazing how few words you need to say in order to get a guy to like you.

With this in mind, here are the two most attractive words you can say to a guy you like, plus one super-attractive phrase.

1. "Yes."

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When he asks you to do something, say "yes". When he asks you to go somewhere, say "yes".

Men are attracted to the sound of "yes".

Once he hears you're happy to be with him, the bells go off. He starts imagining all the possibilities of what being with you could be like.

And yes, his mind will wander into what it would be like to have sex with you. That's because you've been saying "yes" ... and yes is a magic word to men.

 

2. "No."

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Men respect a woman with standards and boundaries.

When you say "no" to a man — when it's appropriate — he hears that you're not a pushover. If he wants to be with you, he will have to earn it.

Saying "no" means "I'm willing to lose you. However, I'm not willing to lose myself."

Self-love is very attractive to a man. It means he can count on you. It lets him know you're a real person and won't be taken lightly.

 

3. "What do you think?"

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When you ask him what he thinks, it signals him that you respect him.

Men are attracted to you when you respect them.

Guys love to express their ideas and give you suggestions. When you like a guy, asking him what he thinks and telling him how you feel are pure gold.

 

Saying "yes" turns him on, saying "no" keeps him turned on. Asking him what he thinks is magic to a guy you like.

But don't just take my word for it, try it —  he'll like it.

 

James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after dating and relationship coach for STRONG women based in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love. If you're a smart woman struggling to achieve relationship success, check out the treasure trove of men's secrets to fall in love in A Life of Love.