Looking For Mr. Right? THIS Is Why You Should Look For REAL Men

Love, Sex

Stop looking for Mr. Right! Nobody is perfect, especially not your idealized Prince Charming.

If one more coach tells me how she met her Mr. Right, became a first-time bride at 40+ and is now living happily ever after, I'm going to throw up. The funny thing is that I rarely see any of these mythical unicorn men.

With that in mind, I want to introduce you to real men.

If a man never fights with you or you never argue, you are not with a real man; you are with a people-pleasing, feminine guy and you are the man.

Real men are not perfect. They do not constantly support you and your goals.

Real men are messy, they're selfish, and focused on their own life and what they're doing in the world. They care about you and your feelings because you respect them first. Read A Life Of Love to learn more.

I realize that people buy the dream; however, women who are in real relationships rarely speak about how perfect their man is. They speak about the challenges, of which there are many and how to overcome them.

Real people commit to imperfect people because there are no perfect people. No one is worth marrying; we all have a screw loose.

Is there someone out there for you? Absolutely. Is his name Mr. Right? Probably not. It's probably Bill or George, and he is a finite and fallible human being ... just like you.

I don't know about you, but that somehow gives me a sense of relief because I don't have to be perfect.

P.S. Watch How To Know If You Have Chemistry In 30 Seconds. P.P.S. Look inside Dating Advice For Alpha Women: The Road To Love.


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