Why Aren't We Having Sex?

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Why Aren't We Having Sex?
What do you do when you stop having sex? Friends, lovers or business partners?

Sexless marriages and relationships are now epidemic. Our lovers are becoming sexless friends or business partners. Not having sex is painful and frustrating, which leads to cheating or being completely shut down or turned off to sex.

Number 1 turn off for men: sharing his plans or ideas with a woman, and having her tell him how to do it better or different without him asking.

Number 1 turn off for women: when a man stops caring and asking about how she feels.

Do good or feel good, watch the video below to find out what your priorities are, and how to get sex back into your relationship!

People are often surprised by how simple it is to dramatically improve their dating and relationship results and experience. I share with them that they don't have to be perfect. The person they're with doesn't have to be "the one"— it's about practice. Learning from every experience and interaction. I call it "rehearsal dating." Practice the tips in the video above and let me know how it goes by leaving your questions or comments below.

Much love,

James

PS. Listen, read, or watch — then call. If you've ever had chemistry it can come back. Learn how. It's worth it.

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Thank you James!
I just went out with a guy who is just the way you described it (feminine energy man), and was such a turn off! He started as a ten and as you mentioned, he did not give me any material, nor protected me (he actually crashed his bike against mine and I fell off the ground), and he cares about his feelings, not mine. So even though he seems like an amazing guy (in so many other areas), all these things put together were such a turnoff! And he keeps himself poor! Jees...Thank you for putting it in such a clean cut way!

 Do you give too much?  Do you have trouble receiving? When you understand what to say and how to say it to a man you will attract and keep the man you want to be with for the rest of your life. Having been alone for many years I know how painful and frustrating it can be not to know why or what to do or say. 

However as a result of what I want to share with you I'm now happily married. It's been a long journey and I want the same for you because in the end love is all that matters. It's possible and you deserve to be loved for who you are inside. Contact me and find your way back to love from the "Inside out Outside in"..

Much love,

James

 

 

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