How To Pick A Dating Coach

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How To Pick A Dating Coach
Dating coaches come in all shapes and sizes. Find one that fits you.

Having a coach is the best thing you can do in any aspect of your life. The key is to learn from people who have done what you want to do and have the results you want. Asking poor people how to be rich doesn't work. Asking single people when you want to be in a relationship doesn't work. Commiserating with like minded, well meaning others may feel good in the moment however nothing changes.

Here are 3 things to look for in a dating coach.

1. They have a mentor. I owned a yoga studio for many years and the first thing I asked prospective teachers is who is your teacher? What kind of training do you have? If they told me they used to be stiff and are now really flexible that would not be enough for me to hire them.

2. Are they married or in a relationship. Before I got married this would not be a criteria for me after being married it definitely is. You need someone on the front lines who is right where you want to be. So much of what I share with people is a direct result of being married right now.

3. Can they teach you. I learned this the hard way owning a yoga studio. Some people have an amazing practice they just can't help you. A great dating coach knows how to inspire you. Knows how to walk with you and take you from where you are now to where you want to be.

The 3 questions to ask are. Who is your mentor? What are your personal results? Who have you gotten similar results for? If you're satisfied and inspired by these answers, if your dating coach is enthusiastic about helping you, then get started; take action.

The thing that holds most people back from having what they want is not taking a small action step in the direction they want to go. It's called momentum. When you find someone you resonate with follow the feeling and contact them. Take the next step and let yourself know you're serious about changing this aspect of your life.

Much love,

James

P.S. If you resonate use Elite personal coaching.

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James Allen Hanrahan

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I work with professional alpha women and the men who love them. Smart, successful people with an on going war between their head and their heart which makes it difficult to have lasting, loving relationships. Welcome.

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Thank you James!
I just went out with a guy who is just the way you described it (feminine energy man), and was such a turn off! He started as a ten and as you mentioned, he did not give me any material, nor protected me (he actually crashed his bike against mine and I fell off the ground), and he cares about his feelings, not mine. So even though he seems like an amazing guy (in so many other areas), all these things put together were such a turnoff! And he keeps himself poor! Jees...Thank you for putting it in such a clean cut way!

 Do you give too much?  Do you have trouble receiving? When you understand what to say and how to say it to a man you will attract and keep the man you want to be with for the rest of your life. Having been alone for many years I know how painful and frustrating it can be not to know why or what to do or say. 

However as a result of what I want to share with you I'm now happily married. It's been a long journey and I want the same for you because in the end love is all that matters. It's possible and you deserve to be loved for who you are inside. Contact me and find your way back to love from the "Inside out Outside in"..

Much love,

James

 

 

Location: Santa Monica, CA
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