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His Online Profile Looks Great, But Where's The Chemistry?

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His Online Profile Looks Great, But Where's The Chemistry?
A tux can make any man look good.
Here's how you find chemistry and what it teaches you about love.

Chemistry is an important part of dating and relationships. People often wait to long to get offline and find out if they have it. If you have ever met the perfect guy on paper you know what I mean. Check out the video below to learn about chemistry and the important lesson it comes with about love.

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People are often surprised by how simple it is to dramatically improve their dating results and experience. I share with them that they don't have to be perfect. The person they're with doesn't have to be "the one"— it's about practice. Learning from every experience and interaction. I call it "rehearsal dating." Practice the tips in the video above and let me know how it goes by leaving your questions or comments below.

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James Allen Hanrahan

Dating Coach

Thank you James!
I just went out with a guy who is just the way you described it (feminine energy man), and was such a turn off! He started as a ten and as you mentioned, he did not give me any material, nor protected me (he actually crashed his bike against mine and I fell off the ground), and he cares about his feelings, not mine. So even though he seems like an amazing guy (in so many other areas), all these things put together were such a turnoff! And he keeps himself poor! Jees...Thank you for putting it in such a clean cut way!

 Do you give too much?  Do you have trouble receiving? When you understand what to say and how to say it to a man you will attract and keep the man you want to be with for the rest of your life. Having been alone for many years I know how painful and frustrating it can be not to know why or what to do or say. However as a result of what I want to share with you I'm now happily married. It's been a long journey and I want the same for you because in the end love is all that matters. It's possible and you deserve to be loved for who you are inside. Contact me and find your way back to love from the "Inside out Outside in"..

Much love,

James

 

 

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