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Men With Feminine Energy: Good Lays With Bad Futures

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He's funny, charming, and sexy. He just doesn't have a job.

Men with feminine energy find ways to be poor. It aligns with their need to be unproductive. It keeps them out of committed relationships. They are in a dream state when it comes to love. They rush in and build nothing. They are in a state of hopeless romanticism the more hopeless the better. They live in the exquisite pain that keeps them lost in life. It's not love they seek but an escape from life.

They are at home in the pain of unrequited love, as it keeps up the delusion that they are doing something in life. Pain is most people's anchor, their best friend. But a friend that betrays you and leaves you alone. It is pain that keeps men away from the altar. They are their own companions convinced they are unlucky. Men with feminine energy find ways to be poor and alone. They are good lays with bad futures. To understand the difference between a real man and a feminine energy man, watch the video below.

People are often surprised by how simple it is to dramatically improve their dating results and experience. I share with them that they don't have to be perfect. The person they're with doesn't have to be "the one"—it's about practice. Learning from every experience and interaction. I call it "rehearsal dating." Practice the tips in the video above and let me know how it goes by leaving your questions or comments below.

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This article was originally published at James Allen Hanrahan . Reprinted with permission from the author.

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