Men With Feminine Energy: Good Lays With Bad Futures

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Men With Feminine Energy: Good Lays With Bad Futures
He's funny, charming, and sexy. He just doesn't have a job.

Men with feminine energy find ways to be poor. It aligns with their need to be unproductive. It keeps them out of committed relationships. They are in a dream state when it comes to love. They rush in and build nothing. They are in a state of hopeless romanticism the more hopeless the better. They live in the exquisite pain that keeps them lost in life. It's not love they seek but an escape from life.

They are at home in the pain of unrequited love, as it keeps up the delusion that they are doing something in life. Pain is most people's anchor, their best friend. But a friend that betrays you and leaves you alone. It is pain that keeps men away from the altar. They are their own companions convinced they are unlucky. Men with feminine energy find ways to be poor and alone. They are good lays with bad futures. To understand the difference between a real man and a feminine energy man, watch the video below.

People are often surprised by how simple it is to dramatically improve their dating results and experience. I share with them that they don't have to be perfect. The person they're with doesn't have to be "the one"—it's about practice. Learning from every experience and interaction. I call it "rehearsal dating." Practice the tips in the video above and let me know how it goes by leaving your questions or comments below.

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Thank you James!
I just went out with a guy who is just the way you described it (feminine energy man), and was such a turn off! He started as a ten and as you mentioned, he did not give me any material, nor protected me (he actually crashed his bike against mine and I fell off the ground), and he cares about his feelings, not mine. So even though he seems like an amazing guy (in so many other areas), all these things put together were such a turnoff! And he keeps himself poor! Jees...Thank you for putting it in such a clean cut way!

 Do you give too much?  Do you have trouble receiving? When you understand what to say and how to say it to a man you will attract and keep the man you want to be with for the rest of your life. Having been alone for many years I know how painful and frustrating it can be not to know why or what to do or say. 

However as a result of what I want to share with you I'm now happily married. It's been a long journey and I want the same for you because in the end love is all that matters. It's possible and you deserve to be loved for who you are inside. Contact me and find your way back to love from the "Inside out Outside in"..

Much love,

James

 

 

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