Cellmate Or Soulmate: Who Are You Dating?

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Cellmate Or Soulmate: Who Are You Dating?
How will you know you've found the one?

I always encourage people to date at whatever level they can to regain their faith in humanity. We are social creatures; other people heal us. Pain changes us for the better, as it points us in new directions. We are always trading up. Gratitude gives us perspective. Everyone plays their part—the challenge is to be open to the lesson and to have the willingness. I know of no better way to change than dating and relationships. Watch the video below for tips on how to tell the difference between a cellmate and a soulmate.
 

People are often surprised by how simple it is to dramatically improve their dating results and experience. I share with them that they don't have to be perfect. The person they're with doesn't have to be "the one"—it's about practice. Learning from every experience and interaction. I call it "rehearsal dating". Practice the tips in the video above and let me know how it goes by leaving your questions or comments below.

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Thank you James!
I just went out with a guy who is just the way you described it (feminine energy man), and was such a turn off! He started as a ten and as you mentioned, he did not give me any material, nor protected me (he actually crashed his bike against mine and I fell off the ground), and he cares about his feelings, not mine. So even though he seems like an amazing guy (in so many other areas), all these things put together were such a turnoff! And he keeps himself poor! Jees...Thank you for putting it in such a clean cut way!

 Do you give too much?  Do you have trouble receiving? When you understand what to say and how to say it to a man you will attract and keep the man you want to be with for the rest of your life. Having been alone for many years I know how painful and frustrating it can be not to know why or what to do or say. 

However as a result of what I want to share with you I'm now happily married. It's been a long journey and I want the same for you because in the end love is all that matters. It's possible and you deserve to be loved for who you are inside. Contact me and find your way back to love from the "Inside out Outside in"..

Much love,

James

 

 

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