9. Moisturize! I love the Burt's Bees lip balms, but my hands down favorite is a lip balm by suuthe.com. Living in a dry climate, it's my savior. Best ever.
10. Breath check. I can't possibly give a 10 item kissing lesson without mentioning your breath. Make sure you bring breath provisions on every date!
Remember, that first kiss is a measure of sexual compatibility for a lot of people. Especially women. Pay attention to your technique, and all of the best of the rest will follow!