Stroking His Ego: Why It Is Non-Negotiable
By J. Cameron Gantt. Posted on .
Don’t get lazy and fall into silly routines. Schedules are good when it comes to work and getting things done but for relationships, they can be detrimental. Going out only on certain nights, having sex always before bedtime, same types of sex in the same order and same positions. Once it becomes predictable, it becomes boring. Once you or your partner loses interest, you will have to work your ass off trying to get it back and run the risk either you or him looking externally for something that’s missing from the relationship.
Switch it up and add a little spice every now and then. Make an effort to figure out what he likes and capitalize off of it. Don’t be afraid to deviate from the usual and try some thing new. If his interests match your own, you may be in for a few fun surprises yourself.
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In short, set your relationship up for long-term success. Don’t let the everyday stress of life make you lazy when it comes to making your partner feel like he is appreciated.
