Why Men Are Settling For Mrs. Good Enough

to the YourTango newsletter!

FIND AN EXPERT
Advanced SearchKimberly SeltzerDr. Erica  GoodstoneJennifer Chappell Marsh MFT Intern #65184
ProConnect

Forget About Resolutions and Set Goals Instead1

By . Posted on .

Forget About Resolutions and Set Goals Instead1
Does each year end with unmet resolutions and a feeling of being unworthy?

Do you find yourself wondering again this year, why did I bother to make resolutions? Each year draws to a close with unmet resolutions and feelings of depression can soon ensue.

You can make this coming year different with a few easy changes!

It all starts with dreaming! Simply dreaming though does not help in having a successful year. You’ve dreamily made resolutions, writing them down and promptly forgot them. Is it any wonder that many fall by the wayside before the end of January!

Why set goals instead of resolutions? Now here is the difference; when you dream, and then consciously set goals you’re sending signals to your subconscious mind and the Universe that you’re ready for change. Goal setting has magic in it!

The magic of setting goals is very significant; it’s as if you’re waving your wand to ensure success. By setting goals, you’ll know how you’re doing and what you’re doing to create your luxurious amazing life. You know when to relax or if you must double your efforts.

In addition to goal setting, it’s important to have a positive attitude, self-discipline and take action. Writing your goals gives you a blueprint, taking action, even in small steps, helps to guarantee success.

Once you have achieved something, even a little of what you hoped to achieve, then celebrate to keep you motivated. Goal setting can be as simple or as extravagant as you desire.

When setting goals, be willing to do whatever it takes to achieve them. Whatever you need to get (certifications, education, etc.) be willing to get it in order to create your amazing life you dream of.

Article contributed by
Advanced Member

Inez Bracy

Life Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner

Every day I get calls from women around the world sharing with me how they are frustrated because of new situations in their life and they don't know how to cope.  They just want to know what to do to feel peaceful and calm again.

I show Sassy-Phenomenal-Inspired-Conscious-Empowered-Yummy (SPICEY) women how to radiate confidence, feel sexy, be flirty, exude femininity, make more money and design the lifestyle they choose infused with joy, love and laughter.

I share with them tips they can use immediately to go from frustration to peaceful, calm and feeling like a goddess. 

Click here to watch me on Lifetime TV, The Balancing Act.

Inez Bracy,

Lifestyle Transitions Coach, Radio & TV Personality, Award Winning Author

Location: Orange City, FL
Credentials: MS
Specialties: Life Transitions
Other Articles/News by Inez Bracy:

3 Ways To Attract Your Mate Through Self Love [EXPERT]

By

Have you decided to snag that mate, to connect with your soul mate and to be in a relationship no matter what this year? You have a list somewhere of the qualities you desire in your mate. Did you notice that many of these qualities are based on old beliefs? You promised to be more available, more loving, more kind and ad infinitum! You’ve made these ... Read more

How Do I Handle My First Holiday Alone? [VIDEO]

By

Christmas, Hanukkah and New Year's Eve are the perfect times to spend with friends and family. But, if you find that you're suddenly single or without a partner, how do you get through this special time of year without feeling completely alone? /node/123336 In this video, Lifestyle Transition Coach and YourTango Expert, Inez Bracy offers ... Read more

5 Tips for Singles During The Holidays

By

Are you already experiencing a feeling of dread because the Holidays are quickly approaching and you’re single and alone? You’re surrounded with advertising showing happy couples, laughing, kissing and seemingly having a great time. The more you see the worse you feel! The more you hear, “Tis the season to be jolly” or ... Read more

See More

Recent Expert Posts
Press Conference

DeMistyfy Your Dating: Radio Interview: [EXPERT]

And yes, we spelled it that way for a reason! Listen to this humorous interview of Spike and learn!

Running Woman

Post-Divorce Growth…After They Go, Grow [EXPERT]

Identify your positive changes post-divorce. Make it a growth experience!

No Love

Married and Fighting? It May Signify a Solid Relationship

Married couples can be too harmonious. Find out how much discord creates dynamic relationships.

Have a dating or relationship question?
Ask it here and one of our experts will answer it.

Resources
How to find the right pro for you
10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

YourTango Experts can help your business go from good to great.

10 Steps To Improve Your Coaching Business

Take your coaching business from mediocre to great in no time…

Frequently Asked Questions About YourTango Experts

Thinking of joining? Here's all the facts you need to know to make the most of your membership.

Getting Your Guy To Join You In A Therapy Or Coaching Session

So how can your get your strong, self-reliant, superman to talk to an Expert with you?

Therapist/Counselors: Who We Are & What We Do

What exactly does a therapist/counselor do and can they really help?

See more resources>
FROM OUR PARTNERS