Do you view yourself as less of a man because the numbers on your paycheck are not as big as the number on your woman’s paycheck? Does the disposition of your character change because of it? Do you feel inadequate in other areas of your life? Many men feel like the number on their paycheck is a measure of their manhood. This is not the case. Yes, there are some women out there that will view men differently because of the amount of money they earn. These are simply not the women for you. Life is not about the destination; it is about the journey, and as long as you are happy with yourself and your partner, the material things do not matter.
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TAKE A STEP BACK
Stop looking at yourself as a failure, or that you are somehow less of a man or a bad provider, because of an amount on a piece of paper. Instead, be proud of who you are, show the people around you and that special woman in your life that it is not the size that matters; it is the person you are and the way you treat her. Jobs can come and go and pay can change in an instant, but the one thing that shouldn’t change is that you are reliable and trustworthy, that your character is strong, and you treat your lady in a respectful and loving way. If you treat her right, none of the other stuff will matter. She will feel lucky to have a man that works hard and cares so deeply that he doesn’t let a little thing like who makes more money define who they are as individuals or as a couple.
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