What a tricky and difficult concept for men to even digest. However, in today’s dating world, it’s much more common than most would like to believe.
The first thing we need to analyze are these successful women, and how they got to the positions they are in. It would be fair to say that successful women play by the rules and know how to work hard and get what they want, with professionalism and education. Painting a picture-perfect world is also another trait most successful women demonstrate. They want the entire world around them to seem like the dream other people would give an arm and a leg for. What happens if you are dating a successful woman, but you are not sure if her motives are pure? Do you feel like she is creating a dream life, but in reality, she is craving an entirely different one?
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Signs Your Woman Might Really Want To Be With A Woman
As crazy as this sounds, there are more circumstances like this than most people know. Women get married at a young age, have the perfect life with children, but then wake up. That wake-up is: “Oh, shit! I like women.” This does really happen! Here are a few signs your partner might be getting ready to switch teams:
You find lesbian porn on your home computer or her laptop. (No shit!) A friend of mine got busted by her husband for a browser history of lesbian porn. How could she even deny it? When you find excessive amounts of lesbian porn on any electronic device, it might be time to ask a few questions.
She is very touchy-feely with females. Women in general are comforting creatures, but when a woman is overly touchy feely with another woman, that is a huge blue light spinning and saying, “I love women.” Women who love women love the smell, touch and scent of a woman. Touching is just part of how they express themselves.
She hangs out with primarily lesbians. Now, this doesn’t mean she is a lesbian, but she might be thinking of walking on the wild side. A woman I knew had been married to her high school sweetheart, then got separated from him out of nowhere. She became totally pro-lesbian, and all of her friends were lesbian couples. Ultimately, she got herself a girlfriend. Her reputation as a wife and mother meant a great deal to her, but she was really a closet lesbian.
She tends to stay overnight at other females’ homes. Overnighting with women on a regular basis is an indication your woman might have an interest in doing more than sleeping.
Catching your woman with another woman or exchanging hot and steamy emails/texts/letters. The writing is already on the wall with this one. Don’t close the door just yet, because she could be bisexual. Sometimes a relationship with a twist works for some couples, so don’t immediately freak out. You might end up fulfilling a deep, nasty fantasy.
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These are just a few simple signs you are with a woman who really wishes she was with another female.
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