Tease & Please: 7 Lessons You Can Learn From Strippers


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Make his fantasy a reality with these simple tricks.

5. The conquest. Men love a great fight, be it on the sports field or in the bedroom. At the strip club, men pay dollar after dollar in an attempt to gain the attention of an attractive stripper who they believe they may sleep with someday. This is the "dream" strippers use to milk the cow for all it's worth, knowing they have no intention of sleeping with their clients.
You can use this to your advantage by playing hard-to-get at times, or purposefully challenging your man to win over your affection and the privilege of getting intimate with you. This can be fun for both of you but don't get carried away and frustrate your man, which may cause him to return to what is easy, paying $20 for a lap dance to fulfill his sexual needs.

6. Aggression. Act like you want your man, just like a stripper does. When your man comes home from a long day at work, unzip his pants and take them off. Be creative and spontaneous and he will love you forever. Men love sexual aggression, if you don't know how to be a good lover, learn. After playing the little lamb for so long sometimes you have to turn around with those innocent eyes and be the lion. Remember, a stripper goes for what she wants. This is how she gets paid, she cannot afford to be shy and neither can you. Don't always wait for him to make the first move. 4 Ways To Protect Your Relationship During the Holidays

7. Sexual frustration. This is usually the number one reason a man will visit a strip club, either he isn't feeling satisfied at home or just isn't getting any. If he's not getting anything at home that's just terrible. He deserves a pass to the strip club. Going to the strip club can fulfill his lower self-confidence for a couple hours and also provide some sexual relief. Luckily, this type of situation can quickly be remedied by merely having a more active, fulfilling sex life, which won't leave any additional time or energy to a stripper outside of the house.
So, ladies, grab your corsets and get to rocking. Get some porn and have it playing when your man gets home. Just be making dinner in a little apron and nothing else. By the way, don't do this if you have kids. You might also want to make sure your blinds are closed and that you check through the peephole to make sure it's your man before opening the door. Should Women Talk Shit During Sex?

These suggestions might sound funny, but hey, men love them, so use them to your advantage. Open up and borrow some of these techniques to enhance your relationship!

- Relationship Coaches Myles P. and Paul V.


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