Does he take you out to dinner, or do you each pay your own way? If you are sexually celibate, you should also be celibate with your pocketbook. When you pay your own way, your objective will be clear and he will not feel used if things don't work out.
Please understand how a man thinks. His ultimate goal is to gain carnal knowledge of you. You can't hide your true emotions when you are having sex. It must be the real you because you are calling for God over and over again. Should Women Talk Trash During Sex?
If you ever get confused, ask yourself: would you date a celibate man? Would you want to pick him up, take him out on dates, buy him dinner, spend your hard-earned money and not even get a kiss (much less an orgasm)? So, what are you going to do? After all, as the old saying goes, if you don't use it, you lose it!
Relationship Coach Zach S.