Let’s look a little bit into the future. You have a new boyfriend but never learn to forgive your ex. You have an inappropriate relationship with a coworker. The MOYD finds out and kicks you out of the house. You have nowhere to go. Your ex would have been willing to provide you temporary shelter, but you never forgave him, and your coworker lives with his wife, so he can’t help you, either. All your family is on the other side of the country and all the girls at work hate you for cheating with a married man. The boss finds out so you get fired. Dammmmn! Now you are stuck. I know you thought yourself perfect and that you would never make a mistake, but here it is in your face--guilty as charged. Don’t feel so bad. Believe me, it happens to the best of us. Everything in this universe is under the law of cause and effect. In order to be forgiven, one must forgive. Cause and effect.
When you learn to forgive, you create harmony instead of discord and dis-ease in your being. Disease loves an unforgiving heart and mind. It is the result of the law of cause and effect. Learning to forgive, although seemingly simple, is the road to true happiness in an imperfect world.
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Please do not wait until your last breath to forgive. Forgive all those ex-boyfriends who caused you pain, so that the MOYD can come into your life.
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