by Relationship Coach Simon S.
Have you seen our first lady lately? The White House must be treating her well because she is looking superb. We love our first lady Michelle Obama ... not just because she is the hottest first lady ever, but also because she has her husband's back. Obama Backs Gay Marriage!
Men love her because Michelle's love for Barack is what all men want. She is setting a beautiful example for all women to follow. You know the love in their eyes is real. She is totally supportive. You can see it in their photos, by the way they embrace and kiss each other, even on the highest level and under the utmost pressure of the entire world watching.
We rejoice because we feel their love is real ... not fake or phony or based on status. Michelle connected with Barack when he was broke, with only an education and aspirations in-hand. Their love existed long before he was a senator or president, perhaps going back to their first date for ice cream. He was an intern and she was his boss.
Although Michelle and Barack overstepped their professional boundaries, timing is everything and sometimes you just have to do what you feel is right. Since Michelle was Barack's senior she had the control to say yes or no. Ladies, I cannot stress how important it is to say yes at the right moment when a man desires that you say yes. That yes becomes sweet music to his ears and can carry his love for you through a lifetime. The momentum will forever be in your favor.
The trick is knowing when to say "yes." Our president looks as if he received the "yes" he needed at just the right time, a "yes" that has carried him all the way through to the White House ... yes we can. You can see it in his eyes when he looks at or holds his wife, our first lady.
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