Chad Ochocinco Vs. Evelyn Lozada Round 1


Chad Ochocinco Vs. Evelyn Lozada Round 1
Should head butting your wife be a reason to get fired from your job?

The Miami Dolphins dropped Chad Ochocinco because he headbutted his wife, Evelyn Lozada. We understand that this was not the right thing to do, but the man plays football, which is a very violent and physical sport. So, why drop a man for doing something that may have come as a result of his competitive nature and as a natural reaction to frustration?

We want to be clear that we do not condone Chad Ochocinco headbutting Evelyn. But, should the man lose his career and his ability to take care of his family over a headbutt? Since when do we live in a perfect world with perfect people? Is there no forgiveness or is there only punishment?

It amazes me how people can be so judgmental of another man's relationship, as if they have never had an argument or a schoolyard fight in their entire life. As if they have never done anything they regretted. Who are these unrealistic people that run our world? They tell us to go to church on Sunday, but then declare war on Iraq on Monday. Why Kristen Stewart Cheated On Robert Pattinson

However, I believe Chad made several mistakes in his relationship. If you're going to get married, be married. Do not send your wife out looking for other women, trying to do threesomes and foursomes. If this is your desire, just be single and don't get married. I believe that, although Chad is a superstar football player, he lacks experience in truly dealing with and understanding women. He can attract them, but managing and keeping them is a whole different ballgame.

Women are the most complicated creatures on planet Earth. They can shapeshift on you in a moment's notice because they are emotionally driven. Logic goes out the door when they are pissed off. So, when you decide to get married it will be hard enough to keep your wife happy, much less two, three or four other women.

Keep your business and your pleasure separate. This means that your wife stays the golden girl, the one you hold up on a pedestal. You do not mix promiscuous women with the wives. This is bad business. Any woman willing to have a threesome with a married couple is someone you do not want to be involved with.

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