It is the little things that beautiful women lack that cement a relationship. Beautiful women are so used to people telling them they are beautiful and catering to them that it has handicapped them from developing the skills necessary to take care of the MOYD. When you earn your keep, you develop skills. When everything is handed to you, you develop no skills and become very insecure. (link Insecure part 1 and 2) Beautiful women often neglect the little things, like a back rub, head massage, noticing the dirt under her man’s fingernails or acknowledging that he works tirelessly for her. This is death to a relationship and true love.
Many women who are pretty seek attention constantly and are obsessed with themselves. It’s like a disease. It is interesting to meet so many beautiful women looking hot and sexy out at the club, who have boyfriends or are in a relationship. It’s like, “What are you doing here?” (A topic to be discussed later.) You can only be good at what you practice and focus your energy towards.
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A beautiful woman may look good in the mirror but in the end she will be lonely, have a man and still be lonely, or have the MOYD, who is not in love with her but only in love with the way she looks--the proverbial trophy wife. You cannot love a trophy. It is a thing. This is a tragedy for this woman, and he will eventually cheat when he later realizes that true love and happiness is not necessarily in the way she looks.
This is why many of these women have and cling to their dogs, cats, etc. They are lonely. If she had the MOYD to cling to, she would not cling to her dog until it became an ingrained habit. But she treats her dog better than the MOYD or potential MOYD. A dog is the only one who will love her vanity unconditionally: “Come on Charlie, let’s go for a walk, only you understand me.” Men are not dogs, contrary to popular belief. We have feelings and needs just as you do. Do you know what those are? Food and sex are only for starters. Our behavior is very predictable when the woman has substance. (Women have the Power to Help Men Become Better)
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What good does it do a man to have a pretty woman but not love? What good does it do a man to have a pretty woman who does not truly care how he feels? Because she really does not care how he feels, nor does she have the skill set to even ask the basic questions. Who he is and how he truly feels often go unnoticed. Yes, in the end it will be her and the dog walking down the street by themselves. They are meant for each other.