The best way to avoid a punch is to move out of the way. Learn from boxers ... they are not trying to take punches, but they are trying to move out of the way. A great man, Muhammad Ali, once said, "Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee." Note: We still refer to your hot-tempered man as the Man of Your Dreams. Why? We understand that no one is perfect at all times because we all have flaws and fall short of our goals.
4. Ask yourself the big question. Ask yourself a question — a personal question that only you can answer: is it more important for you to compete with and out-talk the MOYD word for word, or is it more important for you to get your point across? You have to determine what your goal is. If your goal is anything other than to diffuse a hot-tempered man, then please stop reading here.
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We really want you to learn and understand this point. When you speak, you speak with a powerful but meek authority. Say things that make sense. In this situation, think two or three times about what you want to say before responding. 3 Tips To Avoid Fighting With Your Partner
Do not say the first thing that comes to mind. This battle will be won with your silence, patience, understanding and carefully-structured responses. Think before you speak because hot-tempered men, during the heat of the moment, respond best to logical comments. If you mention things that refer to another subject from five years ago, you are only going piss him off more. Always remind yourself what your goal is.
5. Think before you speak. To continue reading this article please go to www.HowToGetTheManOfYourDreams.com.
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