Are you really ready to make room for love in your life? Many single men and women say they desire love and romance, yet secretly they harbor fears of how a relationship may alter their comfortable routines.
It is this fear of change that sabotages many budding relationships, as you think to yourself -- I love my life the way it is. Why change it?
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Are you so cozy in your life that you won't make room for love?
Do you think that a potential love match will expect you to change to fit into their lifestyle?
These attitudes actually guard your heart to make sure you won't find love. Would you like to break through this barrier to love?
You do so by making simple changes in your dating mindset:
Open your heart and mind to the idea that your great love match adds joy and pleasure to your life.
Remind yourself of ancient wisdom that joy shared is doubled, and sorrow shared is halved.
Imagine how great it feels to share your life with your great love, and give thanks for them now -- even if you haven't met them yet. Why?
Your feelings of love and gratitude attract even more love and magnetize your great love to you.
A universal law states that what you focus on expands. I often say that whatever you think about, you bring about. So from this moment forward, be vigilant in choosing thoughts that attract love, rather than repel it.
You no longer allow yourself to be guarded by thoughts of another's expectations or imaginary ways they may expect you to change, because these thoughts repel love.
From now on, you remain focused on all the positive, delightful ways your great love enriches your life, which you love even more when you make room for your great love.
How do you identify your great love match in the dating process?
You sort through mismatches, whose expectations clash with yours. You choose your great love match, whose vision for a great love life and a great relationship blends with yours.
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Will you search for your great love match, who fits right into your cozy life and loves you just the way you are right now?
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