Ho Ho Holiday Sex-A Sexy Secret You Can't Get From Santa
By Hadley Finch. Posted on .
Need to spark up your sex life to ring in a happy new year? If you're not having sex leading to orgasm at least twice each week in a committed relationship, then you're being cheated out of the health and longevity benefits of sexual healing.
Good news: You can change that by using a sexy secret that rekindles the passion, romance and sexual healing you deserve in your relationship.
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What is this sexy secret?
Get rid of bad relationship habits that block passionate love, and replace them with better love habits. This means you stop doing what doesn't work and start doing what does. Let's give you some examples.
What if you or your romantic partner are avoiding sex?
That often happens because a bad habit is destroying sexual desire, trust and love. Fortunately, you can do something new to get new results. You can identify a bad habit and replace it with a better love habit that sustains passion and romance with your partner.
Here are some examples of bad relationship habits and better love habits to use instead:
Are you taking your partner for granted, making them feel like a low priority in your life?
A better love habit is to express your appreciation every day for the big or little things your partner does to take care of each of you, your home, family, and your relationship.
Are you placing your needs and happiness ahead of your partners?
A better love habit is to ask your partner what they'd like to see you do to help them satisfy an unmet need, to make their life a little happier because you're in it.
Are you feeling bored with the same-old partner?
A better love habit is to stop thinking and acting in ways that make you feel bored and start doing things to add fun, romance and excitement to your relationship and daily life.
Are you criticizing and complaining?
A better love habit is to stop focusing on the negatives, which fuels more negatives, and start focusing on all the good qualities that drew you together, which rekindles those qualities and feelings today.
Have you shut down because of your partner's hurtful or abusive behavior?
A better love habit is to open up in a calm moment and suggest things your partner can say or do instead that won't hurt you, that will rebuild trust and rekindle love and romance.
Do you believe sex is for procreation, not for recreation nor romantic intimacy?
A better love habit is to understand this limiting belief prevents you and your partner from enjoying a healthy sex life, and then choose a healthy new belief that rekindles all the passion, romance and sexual healing that you and your beloved partner deserve in a relationship.
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