She broke the date and vowed that whenever she met a man like Jon or Andre she would run the other way. From then on, Christa was able to recognize the men who were like Jon that came her way in less than ten minutes. Although at first she felt at ease with them, she rapidly recognized their neediness, walked away and congratulated herself on now being immune to the charms of those kind of men.
With additional counseling she was also able to change her perception of herself from being someone who attracted only needy losers to a confident and capable woman who attracted men who were also capable and confident. If you are ready to break your pattern of unhappy over and over relationships, perform the same experiment and see what you find out about yourself.
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