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Newlywed 911: Protecting Young Marriages

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Newlywed 911: Protecting Young Marriages
Another celeb newlywed bites the dust. Here's a NEWLYWED 9-1-1 on how to protect young marriages.

By Malia Karlinsky, GalTime Love/Sex Editor

Sad news about one of Hollywood's hottest couples--Russell Brand has filed for divorce from wife Katy Perry. The news about the break-up does not come as a complete surprise.

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Celebrity gossip columnists have been buzzing about a rift between pop music princess Katy Perry and her actor/comedian hubby Russell Brand. Married for just 14 months, the often lovey-dovey pair reportedly spent this past Christmas miles apart (two-thousand miles to be exact).

Photos showed Perry splashing around on a Hawaiian beach (without her wedding ring), while Brand was also snapped on a beach-- in Cornwall, England-- sans Perry.

What broke this celeb couple up? We may never know for sure, but Us Weekly recently reported that Brand's lack of respect for Perry's parents' Christian beliefs as the cause of some tension.

If that's the case-- the problems of this glamourous newlywed couple are quite common.

Jeanine and Mark Earnhart, spouses who co-authored a book titled Marriage Works, cite the in-laws as one of the biggest issues that cause problems in new marriages. According to the Earnharts, there are some very predictable problems that plague the newly married.

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Top 5 Issues that Newlyweds Face

1. In-law issues

2. Finances

3. Sex
4. Time spent with friends (without the spouse)

5. Household chores.

Jeanine Earnhart suggest communication as way to get over these newlywed "speed bumps" on the road to a happy marriage. "It may seem like a simple answer, but it works for every one of these problems," she explains. "If a couple gets their communication skills down right from the start, they can talk about anything and solve most problems."


Tina B. Tessina, PhD, (aka "Dr. Romance") a psychotherapist 
and author of Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting about the Three Things That
 Can Ruin Your Marriage, suggests putting some work into the relationship before putting a ring on it.

Tessina shares that there are several 
questions every couple should consider before moving in together or making
 joint financial commitments.

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7 Questions Every Couple Should Talk About

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1. What is your definition of commitment? 
If you don't know what your relationship means to the both of 
you, you risk repeating past mistakes, getting stuck in uncomfortable roles,
 or fighting about what a healthy relationship is.

2. Have you discussed finances? Different financial habits (one likes to save, the other spends 
more, or doesn't keep track) can become a source of argument.

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