to the YourTango newsletter!

Continue to Site »»

ProConnect

Mia Hamm On Mothering Like a Coach & Being Fit at 40

By . Posted on .

Mia Hamm On Mothering Like a Coach & Being Fit at 40
One-on-one with soccer legend, major-league wife and mom Mia Hamm.

M: There is no exception for hard work. I think you get out of it what you put into it. There might be small fixes but, in the end, whether it is your health or fitness, if you don’t put the work in, you don’t see results. I try to apply that now whether it’s an investment in me, time with my kids and relationships with other people. A lot of the times you say that you're too tired to work out or it's going to take too long to go see your friends. When you get there you say, "I'm so glad I did this or I'm so glad I worked out." You get out of it what you put in it.

 

More from YourTango: The One Thing He Can't Do For You

RELATED Parenting In The Age of Trophy Kids

J: What would you say would be the secret to your success and what kept you going all those years?

 

M: I think I was afraid to fail. Not that I didn't have confidence but that I wouldn't find something else to do. When I grew up, I was a shy kid. One of the things I did very well was sports, so that gave me a voice and validated me to my peers at times. They would say, "She's good at this; let's have her on our team." That enabled me socially, to find myself and here I am today.

J: Why are you teaming up with Dick's Sporting Goods Gifts that Matter Campaign?

 

More from YourTango: How to Get Financially Stable After Divorce

M: [DSG] approached me and asked if there was anything in my life whether it was a small gesture or a gift that mattered to me and made a difference. I told them "Yes, I remember when I was 11 years old; I got my first pair of leather cleats." For a young soccer player, that is huge and that meant that you're legitimate. It is the next step, because you usually had the plastic cleats.  I was like "Hey, I have taken the next step. My parents have seen it and I see it now." Now what we’re trying to do is inspire other people. You never know that you can be giving a gift that inspires the athlete in your life. It’s also important to me personally to give back. I have a foundation that helps families who have loved ones undergoing bone marrow transplants and in getting people registered in the national bone marrow registry. My foundation also helps encourage girls in sports, whether it’s buying them soccer balls or creating the after school soccer programs and getting them coaches they need.  It’s all to make sure that they can gain more confidence in themselves and feel that they matter.

J: Do you hope that your children will be athletes, given that both you and your husband are world-class athletes?

 

M: We will definitely encourage them to do sports. Even if they don’t pursue it professionally, overall it helps build self-esteem, communication skills, and teaches you to work as a team. As for how far they want to go with sports will be their choice. My parents never pushed me to do anything. They saw I enjoyed what I was doing and that is what I will do with my own children.

More from GalTime.com:

Article contributed by
Advanced Member

GalTime .com

Author

Galtime.com. Everyone needs a little galtime!

Location: Somerset, MA
Credentials: Other
Specialties: Couples/Marital Issues, Empowering Women, Parenting
Other Articles/News by GalTime .com :

The One Thing He Can't Do For You

By

By Marcus Osborne for GalTime.com If there’s one thing that I’m constantly reminding people of when they tap me on the shoulder seeking advice about their either their particular situation or some general question, it’s this: people asking for advice have usually already made up their minds about their issue.   So why are they ... Read more

How to Get Financially Stable After Divorce

By

By Jeff Landers for GalTime.com   As a divorcing woman, you are no doubt looking forward to having the whole divorce process over with, so you can move ahead to your new life. If you’re like most women, you probably think the past few months (or years!) have been filled with enough emotional upheaval, not to mention legal and financial ... Read more

Relax: It's Okay If You Don't Obsess Over Your Baby's Milestones

By

With my first daughter, I carefully preserved every memory, writing down detailed letters to her every week and updating her baby book with each milestone from her first tooth to her first haircut. As a parent, I was certain I would treasure each and every memory forever. Fast forward four years and after having two more children, I'm having trouble ... Read more

See More

Recent Expert Posts
happiest

Honor: The Master Key For A Healthy Relationship

If you want to have a totally fulfilling relationship with your partner discover the art of honor.

Crazy

After breakup – do you keep the ring – or give it back?

NFL star, Mario Williams, and ex in ugly legal battle over $785k ring. What’s the right thing to do?

happiest

How To Keep Crush Interested In You

You finely got to talk and do much more with your crush.But Now what? How Can You Start Dating Him?

Ask The Experts

Have a dating or relationship question?
Visit Ask YourTango and let our experts and community answer.

Resources
How to find the right pro for you
10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

YourTango Experts can help your business go from good to great.

10 Steps To Improve Your Coaching Business

Take your coaching business from mediocre to great in no time…

Frequently Asked Questions About YourTango Experts

Thinking of joining? Here's all the facts you need to know to make the most of your membership.

Getting Your Guy To Join You In A Therapy Or Coaching Session

So how can your get your strong, self-reliant, superman to talk to an Expert with you?

Therapist/Counselors: Who We Are & What We Do

What exactly does a therapist/counselor do and can they really help?

See more resources>
HOT STUFF!
FROM OUR PARTNERS