This is a difficult conversation to have - VERY difficult - but oh-so necessary. I’ve literally had women stumped into stone silence when I ask it. I don’t say this to be mean spirited or insulting; I just want a realistic point of view. If YOU don’t know why you’re such a great catch, how could you ever expect any guy to see your greatness? And if you know you want Prince Charming, and you know you deserve Prince Charming, what do you bring to the table to interest and keep your particular Prince Charming. That doesn’t mean you have to be a supermodel or run a Fortune 500 corporation, it simply means that when you set your sights on a particular type of guy, you had better have an understanding of what initially attracts that guy and what traits will keep that kind of guy.
Oh and by the way, I’ve had women tell me, “Well, I’m hot” as the reason that Mr. Perfect is going to want her. To which I always respond, “Yeah, sure….but there’s always some one hotter – whether YOU believe it or not.”
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So I ask you, as you fill out your dating profile, and you line up your list of dealbreakers, what’s so great about YOU?
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