She also suggests you be gentle with both yourself and your partner, when trying new things... and to not give up after the first try.
"The first time isn't always the best and many of these thing get better the more you do them," she says.
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In the end, you'll both be glad to have mixed things up. "When we mix things up we keep things alive and juicy," says Jaiya. "Couples forget that even though they've won the attention and affections of their partner, they need to seduce them for a lifetime.
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