Bringing new approaches and exploration into a familiar sex life involves taking some risk though, doesn't it? "Oh boy, what are they going to think?" Our fear of being judged as weird, kinky or "gross" by our partner can keep our sexual exploration and fantasies confined. Play with trying one new thing each time. It doesn't even have to be anything big — could be as simple as, "Let's just leave the lights on tonight," or as off-the-wall as "Why don't we try getting the baseball mitts out?" (I know, weird, but hey, I'm just sayin'!).
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