No, showing up at all hours of the night is NOT cute.
I’ve admittedly dated a lot of women in my life. At one point, after what I've been through, I started to assume all women were flat-out crazy. But then I started coaching women in my professional life, teaching them how to meet quality men, and you know what I realized?
Guys are also nuts. I heard some stories from women that literally blew my socks off. So that basically affirmed that people from both genders are cray-cray. So women, my apologies. And here's some things you should know about telling a normal boyfriend from one who is NOT trustworthy.
1. He has stalker syndrome.
He knows way more information about you than you’ve ever told him. For example, he knows exactly where you eat lunch in the park every day, but you’ve never told him anything about your lunch breaks…
2. He's socially unaware.
He texts all of your friends, but he’s not really friends with your friends yet.
3. He's a Needy Ned.
He constantly shows up to your house unexpectedly just because he wants to “see” you (but really he’s checking up on you).
4. He's a social media manic.
He writes on your Facebook wall, and you don’t write on his. He keeps poking you on Facebook, and you take seven weeks to poke him back. He likes all of your posts, and you do NOT like his posts.
5. He's a hypocrite.
He gets mad at you for having a password lock on your phone … and the reason you have a password lock on your phone is because of him. He constantly asks about your past exes, but he is totally evasive about his past rela-tionships
6. He only ever wants unprotected sex.
He tells you that he wants to have unsafe sex with you even though you remind him constantly that you’re not on birth control. Then you start to hear the sound of a baby crying… run away!
7. He accuses ... CONSTANTLY!
He constantly makes false accusations. For example, “What took you so long to get home from the volunteer night at the food kitchen? Are you banging a homeless guy?”
8. He just won't go away.
He won’t let you break up with him. I recently met an older married couple and asked them how they met. She said they met in college, and she kept trying to dump him but he wouldn’t go away. Awkward!
9. He only likes the chase.
He tells you that he’s head over heals in love with you, and the moment you tell him you feel the same way, he decides that he wants someone else.
10. He takes things way too far.
When you two argue, he always seems to take it to a new level. For example, you might say, “Listen I think you need to learn how to communicate a little better with me. And he harshly responds, “Oh you want to hear me communicate? You’re breath al-ways smells like a baby’s diaper and you’re just not a funny person at all. You’ve never even really made me laugh! Oh and one other thing I hate your mother!”
Yeah, that's cray-cray.
11. He's a control freak.
He doesn’t allow you to have any guy friends, and you’ve repeat-edly told him that “Guyfriend” doesn’t equal “Sexfriend,” boyfriend or affair, it means FRIEND. Are you too much of a control freak? Find out here
12. He contradicts himself. Over. And. Over.
He constantly contradicts himself by telling you that he needs some space, but that he can’t wait to snuggle later.
13. He's legitimately abusive.
But most importantly, the biggest sign that he’s crazy is if he either verbally or physically abuses you in any way, shape or form. Leave him right now. It will not get any better and he doesn’t deserve you.
So if you’re currently dating a crazy person and you like it, well maybe you’re also a crazy person and you both act crazy together.
And if you don’t like it, “woman up” and leave him. Life’s too short to surround yourself with erratic, emotionally uncontrolled people.
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