What are you doing or not doing that may need changing? Do you play passive when you really are more outspoken? Do you try to be a goody two shoes when you're really a she devil in a red dress? If you aren't being your true self when you are finding Mr. Right, you will keep attracting Mr. Wrong. Strive to be the best version of yourself. Save your alternate ego for Halloween.
If you feel like you have been on an endless cycle of Groundhog Day dates, break the déjà vu pattern. Leave the dark shadows of your love life behind you. Be like the weather predicting groundhog "Punxsutawney Phil" and plan for an early spring. Plant the seeds now for a new dating crop of men. Someone wonderful just may pop up.
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Contributed by Kimberly James, MatchMaster & Dating Expert, www.findyourplusone.com