3. Hire a professional matchmaker. There are many online sites that offer matchmaking services. You can also work with a local or regional matchmaker who has a list of clients in the area. Having a professional working for you helps better the odds of making a match.
4. Join meetup or singles night out groups. The process is easy and simple. Most of the groups are free or have a nominal fee to offset entertainment costs. This is a great way to mix and mingle. With a full calendar of events each month, your chances of meeting someone increase with each event you attend.
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Just like a spa date or a hair appointment, you have to show up to enjoy the benefits. Dating is the same way. You must be present to win. RSVP to love. Show up to events, put yourself out there online and in life. You will be making reservations for a party of two in no time at all.
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Contributed by Kimberly James, MatchMaster & Dating Expert, FindYourPlusOne.com